Thursday, 30 August 2007

family affairs...

contrary to popular belief (ok, maybe just my naive and distorted view of things), a relationship between 2 people is not well, between just 2 people. now i realized, whatever decision, plans and undertakings we make/take will need to involve not 2 people, but 2 families! *sigh*


maybe i'm so used to being independent, coupled with the fact the my parents don't really impose any major restrictions on me, going along the tunes of "as long as ur life is not threatened, we trust that u're big enough to know what u're doing and what's important is u're happy", that suddenly having to extend my consideration for other ppl's family's views, opinions, wish, etc is just so dem frustrating! and the spoiled and obstinate brat in me wonder if it's really so important to give in to one's father's every whim and fancy, when all these while, it's MY every whim and fancy that's being met by my dad! *urgh*

9 comments:

Biow said...

welcome to the woes of IL (in laws)..

stargal said...

biow, the problem is, they're not even IL yet!!! *sob*sob*

Emily said...

Hahahaha, planning for the wedding already! Things get worst nearer the date! But Love will prevail!

stargal said...

emily, no wedding bells yet lar... it's just other stuff... but i know what u mean. so NOT looking forward to that part of things!

=t= said...

So you finally agreed and got the thing you want?

stargal said...

t: no, i die-die also dun agree and stood my ground. i pouted, scolded, cried, make muka kesian and threw a tantrum! so in the end, i got what i want! hehehe...

=t= said...

so you got the smaller unit ke?

ahem... buat muka kesian? walau..

stargal said...

t, no lar... i'm ok with the bigger (and more expensive) unit. there were other issues that i just can't accept. so have to put my foot down lar.

=t= said...

well, give n take lo. That's life.